Monday, March 9, 2009

Putting the Pieces Together


When I started researching Autism, I noticed that all of the clip art and organization logos had puzzle pieces. I didn't really understand why until just very recently. Today while visiting with Sam's ABA therapist, Andre, I realized that what we are doing with all of these services is trying to put together the pieces of the puzzle that is Samantha. We are trying to figure out how to fit things together in order to better understand her, and to help her better understand the world around her. We are taking every behavior she has and every ability she shows and putting them together to see the big picture. Ahhhh, now I get the puzzle pieces!
Big break through today was when Sam came in with her shoes in hand. When I asked what she wanted she replied, "Outside and play?" I was thrilled to have her, for the second or third time now, put her request in more than just one single word. Andre was here and we offered to take her to the park. She didn't want to go to the park but let us know she wanted to play out back. Baby steps, baby steps....Also at EI today while on the playground, Sam was on the slide and another child was in front of her. The other child was blocking the path down the slide and she placed her hand on this child's back and said, "Go." We are really seeing some good improvements in her letting her needs and desires known.
We are looking at ABA therapy being possibly 4 days a week. While this seems a bit overwhelming, I have read that it is quite normal and very beneficial. The hard part for me is to just go on with my day as normal and not be overly distracted by the "shadow" of the therapist. I feel my and Sam's days are very mundane and I'm not used to anyone else following around day to day until after hubby gets off work. Maybe if I pretend I am a celebrity it won't seem so odd...LOL
Sleeping is still an issue and hopefully we will get some more clues on how to handle that this Friday when we go visit Vandy for a sleep consult. Samantha still will not nap, and yet is SO tired by 2:00 in the afternoon. Her night time sleep is not regular even though her bedtime and bedtime routine remains very regular. Vanderbilt has proven to be a great resource in the past, I'm sure they won't fail to deliver some insight this time either. Wish us luck!

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