He's Not Your Best Friend!

It's been a while since I've posted and with Summer in full swing the days are flying by faster than I can keep up with. Between vacation and visitors my writing and inspiration for so have taken a hiatus. However, I became aware of something that has been weighing on my heart that I just can't seem to comprehend. So in true Me fashion, I'm doling out some tough live.

Girls, and when I say girls I am talking primarily about the 18-23 year olds, you seriously need to take a step back and learn the definition of friendship. If you are allowing some guy to text you things like "let's fuck" and have so little respect for yourself that you are running over to his house, dropping your panties, and letting him treat you like his personal whore...something is wrong. You are creating a generation of men who think they are entitled to sex without ever having to commit in any way to you.  If you do this enough times with enough different guys you are no more than a party favor being passed around. I'm sure you've heard the old saying "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"

Mark my words, someday when you are in your mid twenties to early thirties you are going to start seeing these men get married. You're going to wonder why it is you are always in charge of the guest book or gift table rather than getting to be the bride. After all, in your twisted mind you were his  "best friend." Let me clue you in. By that point in time, if you keep doing what/who you are doing, to them you will be no more than a used up old rag that has let too many men wipe their d*ck on. No body marries that girl.

So do yourself, and the rest of the women of your generation a favor. Close your legs. Remember you are worth MORE than being anyone's booty call. Your body is a gift from God, don't treat it as any less than that. If some guy is using you for sex and not committed to YOU alone, do yourself a favor and get rid of his ass!